The Enneagram diagram (above) is an ancient symbol reintroduced to the modern world in the last century. The system is a complex teaching with roots in psychology, cosmology, meta-physics and spirituality. While complex, it is also relatively easy for us to understand and apply to ourselves.
To find out your Enneagram point (type), I suggest taking the
quizzes at the beginning of every chapter of The Wisdom of the
Enneagram. Where you score high is where your point will
likely be, though your adaptive personality may interfere with
clarity if you are still closely following adaptive childhood
I include the above mildly amusing story because many
readers of this book are old souls. Old souls are much more
likely than younger souls to be exploring major hermit
tendencies. Yet most of us have been well trained to believe that
hermit tendencies range anywhere from “unfortunate” to “sick.”
The idea that hermits can be happy, healthy and OK is often not
accepted by those who want togetherness and community. The
old soul tendency to “do one’s own thing” makes old souls
generally unconcerned about differences. This results in some
hermit-like choices, although the full-blown hermit path (point 5
on the Enneagram) is still a minority path for old souls.
Three hermits move into a cave together and for the first
seven years they don’t speak to each other. Then one
morning a horse runs by the mouth of the cave.
Seven years later the first hermit says, “That was a pretty
white horse that ran by.”
Seven more years go by and the second hermit says, “That
horse wasn’t white, he was black.”
Yet another seven years go by and the third hermit starts
packing his bags. The other two look at him and he says,
“If all you two are going to do is argue, then I’m leaving.”
Q: What’s wrong with this story?
A: Three hermits would never move into the same cave.
© 2008 by Thayer White
Finding Your Soul in the Spirituality Maze
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